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35 Sexy Gifts for the Woman in Your Life

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35 sexy gifts for her
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So, you want to spice things up this Christmas? And no, I’m not talking about adding an extra dash of nutmeg to your eggnog. Let’s flash forward to the bedroom. Or your car—heck, kitchen! Wherever it is you prefer to get it on, no judgement here, as long as it’s consensual. 'Tis the season for sexy gifts to give your partner!

We usually refer to the holidays as “cuffing season.” You know, it’s when the weather turns cold, less people are out and about, and couples pair off left and right, taking themselves out of the singles pool. But this year has been different. Amid the pandemic, cuffing season happened a lot sooner. And it’s common that the honeymoon phase of your 2020 sex-fling-turned-undefined relationship has started to fade. Or maybe you’re already in a long term relationship but want to add a little heat into your sex lives.

Whether you’re in a new COVID fling, a newlywed or a long term shipper, these sex-driven gifts will get her excited in more ways than one. And the best part? You get to reap some of these benefits. From sexy lingerie, to edible chocolate body paint, and a ton of vibrating sex toys we've tested, you’ll be sure to find something on this list that piques her interest. Ahead are the best 35 sexy gifts for the woman in your life.

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MysteryVibe Crescendo

The Crescendo might just be the most advanced vibrator on this entire list. It brings G-spot, clitoral, penis, and perineum stimulation in six different hidden motors that can be individually controlled. It’s body adaptable and bendable to fit anything and anywhere. Plus, it comes with a PLAYbook app that comes with a guide of intimate positions and acts as a remote control for your vibrator. Isn't technology great?

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Kinky Truth or Dare

Spice things up in the bedroom with a fun and harmless game of kinky truth or dare. You’ll reach new levels of both emotional and physical intimacy.

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Dame Eva II

This vibrator is a gift from the gods for any woman that needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm during penetrative sex. The wings simply tuck into the labia and what you get is effortless hands-free clit play, so you guys can finally O together.

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Clone-A-Willy Silicone Penis Casting Kit - Jet Black
$41.49 (17% off)

This is exactly what it sounds like. It's a DIY project that will keep her company when you're not around, but mostly get one big LOL upon opening. 

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Calvin Klein Cotton Bikini

There is something so utterly sexy about a sporty set of casual underwear.  You can even be a matching couple in this iconic set of Calvins, perfect for making a Sunday late morning breakfast with sexy breaks in between.

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Crave Vesper

Jewelry is always a great gift idea. But a sleek gold necklace is even better when it doubles as a bullet vibrator. It can be your little secret to satisfy her anytime, anywhere.

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Tracey Cox Supersex Beginner’s Bondage Kit

Curious about bondage, but intimated by hardcore porn? If you don’t know where to start, this 5-piece kit is a great place. It comes with directions to help you and your partner or partners really get into  it.

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Your Tea Sex Tea

You’ve heard oysters, chocolate, and champagne are aphrodisiacs before, but have you tried traditional Chinese herbs? The tea blends in this box contain everything eastern culture used for boosting libido.

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Uncommon Goods Love is Art

Turn lovemaking into a mysterious work of art for your home. This kit comes with nontoxic paint and a white canvas so you have an excuse to get down and dirty, while productively creating a lovely piece of DIY abstract decor. 

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Bluebella Tempest Wired Body Red

It’s a little bit sexy and a little bit sweet. Who are we kidding, it’s mostly sexy! The floral appliqué around the nipples and high-waisted thong bottom will make her feel feminine and fancy to let her freakiest self fly.

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Hanky Panky Original Holiday High Rise Thong

Even if she’s not a fancy lingerie-wearer, she will love this set of lace thongs from Hanky Panky. They are the most comfortable pairs she will own and look damn sexy on.

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Lelo ETHEREA Silk Cuffs

Cuffs are an age old toy in the bedroom. But satin tie handcuffs bring on a whole new level of sexy. Get ready for some light bondage with these babies.

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Fifty Shades Freed All Sensation Nipple and Clitoris Clamp

So, she’s always wanted to channel that 50 Shades of Gray moment, but hardcore BDSM can be quite intimidating. Get her this tasteful and stylish body chain that just so happens to clamp on her nipples down to her clit.

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Smile Makers The Millionaire Vibrator

Ironically, this is the best value vibrator on this list. It’s made for both clitoral and g-spot stimulation in four different speeds, all for under $60.

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Foria Awaken Intimacy

This best-selling arousal oil from Foria is made with CBD and essential oils to not only ease discomfort, but to stimulate deeper sensation and amplify orgasms.

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Lelo 2

You both won’t know what hit you with the Lelo 2. This vibrating cock ring fits any penis size and brings pleasure to both partners simultaneously. It’s sleek in design in high tech in function.

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Maude Quickie Kit

Maude is a modern sexual wellness brand that just gets it. This lube and condom combo is your car’s best kept secret. When you’re feeling hot and heavy, this odorless mess-free lube can help speed up foreplay and the condoms feel like they are barely there.

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b-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug 3-inch

Pop it in and go to town. (Just be a little more careful than that.)  If  you and your partner are into butt stuff, this weighted vibrating plug is a must-have.

Related: The 10 Best Vibrating Butt Plugs

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Common Bond Lubricant

Show her just how special her yoni is with a bottle of this luxe CBD lube. It’s made with all clean ingredients and calming botanicals that are a major turn on. 

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Lelo MONA™ 2

This is one powerful sex toy. It has pretty intense vibrations and a tapered tip for precise stimulation. It's great for both internal or external action. 

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Womanizer Red Duo Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator

Woah, this clit-suctioning vibrator hits the G-spot, too. It will feel like you are going down on her and penetrating her at the same time.  

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Dame Fin

We get it, sometimes your fingers get tired. This finger attachment vibrator is here to save the day (and her orgasm). It’s made for foreplay, partner, and solo use for her to play (when you’re not around.)

Related: 22 Sex Toys for Couples to Use 

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Goddess Figure Candle

It’s one thing to have sexy art around the house to set the mood. And when that art celebrates all bodies by way of a candle, the mood is even more encouraged.

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Savage x Fenty Lace Teddy

We’re not going to claim that this lace bodysuit will turn her into Rihanna, but it will certainly make her feel like one badass, confident boss in bed. She won’t believe her eyes when she opens up this baby—and neither will you when she puts in on.

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Moon Juice Sex Dust

You might not believe a shiny magic potion exists to boost your sex drive. This rich and chocolaty adaptogenic blend tastes great in hot chocolate and even better as a cocktail (to loosen things up even more). It includes maca and cacao, two known adaptogens that help with libido and endorphins for more pleasure.

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Woo More Play Vibez I Cum First Vibrator

Show her who’s boss in bed. Spoiler alert: it’s her with the “I Cum First” vibrator. It’s a cute and kitchy way to introduce toys into sex.

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Lelo LUNA Beads™ Noir

Lelo's take on Ben Wa balls are perfect for foreplay.  While they are used to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle, they also enhance sexual pleasure. Slip these in with a little lube and proceed with all types of foreplay. Her clitoral O will likely be more powerful than ever before. 

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Lovehoney Plus Size Late Night Liaison Blue Lace Babydoll Set

This see-through lacy number is beyond sexy, and the blue is a fun departure from classic black or red. 

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Sunday Riley Come Upstairs Massage Candle

A candle that brings a flickering light and heats up a sexy massage oil? If you haven’t tried this move yet, you are missing out. And don’t worry, it’s made from all natural moisturizing materials, so it’s not just body safe, but also nourishing for your skin and hers. 

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Pro 40 Clitoral Vibrator
$69.00 (44% off)

This bad boy uses sucking sensations to simulate oral sex. (Read more about the wonders of clit-sucking vibrators!) When you're tired and she's not, this handy tool to the rescue! 

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