Giving a sexy gift is always a good move for heating up the romance in your relationship. After all, "receiving gifts" (wink, wink) is one of the so-called love languages.
When it comes to romantic gift-giving for your wife or girlfriend, no present is better for spicing up your love life than something having to do with sex. We're talking sex toys like vibrators and booty stuff, sex games, lingerie, massage candles, fancy lube...the whole nine. Just make sure she opens the gift in private, and not, say, on Christmas morning in front of her whole extended family.
Not to sound totally selfish over here, but one of the best things about giving a partner a sex gift is that you also benefit. It's normal for couples to get bored in the bedroom when they've been together for a long time, and research shows that sexual boredom breeds a loss of libido. Injecting anything new into your sex life—hint hint, like one of the unique sexy gifts on this list—might help reignite that spark and give you both the dose of excitement you've been craving.
If you're not sure what kind of sexy gift to get your wife or girlfriend, make an at-home date night out of taking a couple's chemistry quiz. Learning about your shared kinks and sexual fantasies might help steer you in the right direction! And when you're done, check out these top-rated sexy gift selections for some sexual inspiration.
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This is one way to get your freak on. It's a Jenga-like sex game with wildly specific dares of sexual teasers and new moves. Even if you're experienced in the world of adventurous sex, we guarantee there's a move in this stack you have not tried.
This is exactly what it sounds like. It's a DIY project that will keep your partner company when you're not around, but mostly get one big LOL upon opening. It's the perfect sex gift for long-distance relationships.
OK, this might not look that sexy but trust us, it will make sex so much better—especially for her. For opposite-sex couples, it perfectly positions his insertion to hit the G-spot. She will thank you upon first orgasm.
This vibrator is a gift from the gods for any woman that needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm during penetrative sex. The wings simply tuck into the labia and what you get is effortless hands-free clit play, so you guys can finally O together.
This best-selling arousal oil from Foria is made with CBD and essential oils to not only ease discomfort during sex, but to stimulate deeper sensation and amplify orgasms.
The Crescendo might just be the most advanced vibrator on this entire list. It brings G-spot, clitoral, penis, and perineum stimulation in six different hidden motors that can be individually controlled. It is body adaptable and bendable to fit any anatomy. Plus, it comes with a PLAYbook app that comes with a guide of intimate positions and acts as a remote control for your vibrator. Isn't technology great?
Curious about bondage but intimated by hardcore porn? If you don’t know where to start, this 5-piece kit is a great place. It comes with directions to help you and your partner (or partners) really get into it.
Everyone needs a sexy robe in their life. The black satin material adds a little extra sex appeal to the already sexy cover-up. (It also comes in red, if that's her color.)
We’re not going to claim that this lace bodysuit will turn her into Rihanna, but it will certainly make her feel like one badass, confident boss in bed. She won’t believe her eyes when she opens up this baby—and neither will you when she puts in on.
We're guessing they call it The French Lover because the design mimics that of a French kiss. Either way, this tongue-shaped vibrator will stimulate all of the 8,000 nerve endings that live in her clitoris. It's a sex gift for her like no other.
Turn lovemaking into a mysterious work of art for your home. This kit comes with nontoxic paint and a white canvas so you have an excuse to get down and dirty, while productively creating a lovely piece of DIY abstract decor.
It’s a little bit sexy and a little bit sweet—who are we kidding, it’s mostly sexy. The floral appliqué around the nipples and high-waisted thong bottom will make her feel feminine and fancy to let her freakiest self fly.
She's going to need a pouch to store all of the sex gifts you're giving her. Start with this cute little pouch.
You both won’t know what hit you with the Lelo 2. This vibrating cock ring fits any penis size and brings pleasure to both partners simultaneously. It’s sleek in design in high tech in function.
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So, she’s always wanted to channel that 50 Shades of Gray moment, but hardcore BDSM can be quite intimidating. Get her this tasteful and stylish body chain that just so happens to clamp on her nipples down to her clit. It's the sex gift she never knew she needed.
The whip cream thing is so 2004. Kick it up on notch with decadent dark chocolate body paint you can later lick off each other.
Splurging on fancy lingerie is almost as good as jewelry. Fleur de Mal is among the best in the biz and the festive bra shows your partner that she is the gift that keeps on giving.
This see-through lacy number is beyond sexy, and the blue is a fun departure from classic black or red.
Even if she’s not a fancy lingerie-wearer, she will love this set of lace thongs from Hanky Panky. They are the most comfortable pairs she will own—and look damn sexy on.
You might not believe a shiny magic potion exists to boost your sex drive. This rich and chocolaty adaptogenic blend tastes great in hot chocolate and even better as a cocktail (to loosen things up even more). It includes maca and cacao, two known adaptogens that help with libido and endorphins for more pleasure.
There is something so utterly sexy about a sporty set of casual underwear. You can even be a matching couple in this iconic set of Calvins, perfect for making a Sunday late morning breakfast with sexy breaks in between.
Yes, this clit-suctioning vibrator hits the G-spot, too. It will feel like you are going down on her and penetrating her at the same time.
Show her who’s boss in bed. Spoiler alert: it’s her with the “I Cum First” vibrator. It’s a cute and kitchy way to introduce toys into sex.
This award-winning sexy toy brand enhances any sexy moment with a little added stimulation. Lora DiCarlo makes a vibrator for every type of pleasure. This one mimics the human finger, pulsating on the clitoris. You can even take a quiz to find out what vibrator works best for her, or speak to a wellness coach (for free) to figure out the best way to bring these babies into the bedroom. Get ready for a sexual awakening.
So you've talked about role playing in bed before but have you actually done it? A sexy colorful wig is a fun place to start.
When a date night at home cooking up a deliciously sexual meal sounds like the most fantastic foreplay, whip out this book.
Lelo's take on Ben Wa balls are the perfect addition for foreplay. While they are used to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle, they also enhance sexual pleasure. Slip these in with a little lube and proceed with all types of foreplay. Her clitoral O will likely be more powerful than ever before.
We get it, sometimes your fingers get tired. This finger attachment vibrator is here to save the day (and her orgasm). It’s made for foreplay, partner, and solo use for her to play (when you’re not around.)
It’s one thing to have sexy art around the house to set the mood. And when that art celebrates all bodies by way of a candle, the mood is even more encouraged.
Cuffs are an age-old toy in the bedroom. But satin tie handcuffs bring on a whole new level of sexy. Get ready for some light bondage with these babies.
Show her just how special her yoni is with a bottle of this luxe CBD lube. It’s made with all clean ingredients and calming botanicals that are a major turn on.
The latest from We-Vibe brings her G-Spot and clit stimulation in 10 different styles, all at once in. Plus, you can control it from an app, anytime, anywhere. Whoa.
Red wine makes anyone feel sexy, especially on a cold winter night. And sharing a bottle of wine in this decanter will make the wine and each other taste even better.
Maude is a modern sexual wellness brand that just gets it. This lube and condom combo is your car’s best-kept secret. When you’re feeling hot and heavy, this odorless mess-free lube can help speed up foreplay, and the condoms feel like they are barely there.
There is nothing like a luxury candle to set the mood. This one from La Botica is warm, woodsy, vibrant, and made from all plant-based clean ingredients. You’ll get over 75 hours of burn time from this candle that is well worth the investment.
A candle that brings a flickering light and heats up a sexy massage oil? If you haven’t tried this move yet, you are missing out. And don’t worry, it’s made from all-natural moisturizing materials, so it’s not just body-safe, but also nourishing for your skin and hers.